Joan Rivers it seems had left hilarious instructions on what she wanted for her funeral.
Perhaps that's something that we all need to think about. Whilst it wont bother us what music is played or what poems are spoken when we are no longer around, its one less thing that our loved ones will have to think about when there are so many other things to do.
So, why don't you leave instructions in your will, or if you hear your favourite music on the radio, pointedly say "I would like that played at my funeral".
The conversation doesnt have to be gloomy but help your family by getting it out there.